family nights

i have a crush on them.

family nights, that is. they make me so happy!

the romance began last fall. i had put on my calendar to watch an online live conference on http://www.leadingandlovingit.com/. i remember before watching it, that i wanted to see someone on there that wasnt put together. preferably no makeup. maybe their house could be a wreck... (wink).

i was in the middle of being a momma. being mrs. coach. being a leader of 'real' in other areas in my community and church.

looking back i realize that in that moment its not that i wanted someone to be a mess. i desperately wanted to see what 'real' looked like for mommas in ministry. i am a lover of 'real'. i love when people are real with ya. ok, rambling....back to my crush.

so when laid back, fun heather whittaker http://www.whittakerwoman.typepad.com/ got on talking about 'being intentional with family time'...i was hooked!

its quite simple.

we spend time together. we laugh together. we relax together.

I. LOVE. IT.

thursday nights are our nights.

here's a peek a boo at last thursday...'snuggle night'.

after school i asked the girls what they wanted to do for family night. they pick most the themes and get creative which is half the fun. but that thursday i told them i just wanted to snuggle with them on the couch and do nothing. so we came up with make a tent, movie and popcorn daddy style...which means pourable butter. happy.

so after dinner we got on our tent making skills! fun fun!

family nights are health to us. they are the discipline i was missing. i was spending so much time with time outs, spankings, yelling and beating my head against a wall of what would work so they would just listen to their momma. and now...well i still have those times but they are fewer and farther between. spending time together is really the attention they were wanting. and i love it.

no matter what your family dynamic is...what do you do to spend time together? we're always looking for ideas!

oooo and one more pic! when we are plum out of ideas, we made this...

i got the idea from debra parker www.debraparker.blogspot.com who makes one for summertime...aaaahhhh summer...

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changes

i've been thinking a lot about changes lately.

how i react to them mostly.

when change comes at me do i react in...

sadness?
anger?
happiness?
fear?
confusion?
confidence?

there are changes that cause my heart to hurt and be heavy. there are changes that make me happy and want to dwell in that change. there are changes that cause me to retreat and hide. there are changes that make me say 'im not ready for this'. there are changes that i think...'this looks different than i thought'.

i like change for the most part.
i like changing my blog. i love the freshness of it.
i change my house around all the time. it makes me happy to repurpose and redecorate.
i like to change things up in our gals group to keep things fun, flexible and laid back.
i like to change things up at home so we can spend more time as a family.

but what about when the change is not my decision or a change that interrupts my comfort zone?

january is a time for new beginnings. everyone makes new years resolutions of what they want to change in the new year. our change was made for us. heath will not be coaching football for harding high school next year. the year ahead for the hinton family holds many changes. im not sure what at this point. but change is inevitable.

what we do with change...however...IS in our hands.

i have went thru all the emotions i've listed and probably some others...but what it boils down to today is this...

i will live as if there is no tomorrow.
i will embrace the people around me.
i will be a part of something bigger than me.
i will inspire others to be part of something beyond themselves.

no matter where we live or what we are doing.


im not really sure how i want to end this post.

i do know that my ministry is being real with others.

and on this blog the change that occured before christmas is a stepping stone to what's ahead for the hinton fam. and i just had to include it here before i could write or share anything else.

what change is before you? how are you reacting?